Name:     blue star
IP:       206.76.17.219
Subject:  no, i'm right!!! ;)
Email:    bluestarliz@hotmail.com
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Article:
my personal experience has been that time heals in the longterm.  yes, there are things like
chocolate and masterbation, but these are quick fixes...something to distract you from that
person that makes your heart go pitter-pat.  and yes, time does allow for remembering that
person, but i don't think that is necessarily a bad thing.  think about them, as long as you
don't let yourself be consummed in missing them (this goes for sadness of all sorts, you really
have to think through things instead of just sticking a band-aid on your wounds and forgetting
about it...you never know when someone is gonna peel it off and rub salt in the cut).  as for
the rebound person, i stand by this being a very bad idea, if nothing else because it's unfair
(here is where alphagold pops in and says "life is unfair"...well, it is but i don't have to
make it any more so for someone).  i am really bad about getting caught on the rebound...for
some reason, men find me unbearably sexy or something whenever i've just had my heart put
through a meat grinder (and yet they ignore me when i'm emotionally in a good state...hmm...). 
i don't feel comfortable being in a relationship where i cannot focus on my boyfriend/dating
buddy/whatever as much as they are focussing on me.  unless perhaps you can seek out someone
else who is on the rebound; wasn't that in "hi fidelity" ?  spending a lot of money is bad; i
have this tendency as well, but i never have any money so i guess it's okay (come to think of
it, i have just spent a lot of money...i bought a car, afterall...but then again, that had
nothing to do with heartbreak).  i don't really see a problem with eating a lot as long as it
doesn't continue for too long...perhaps the bad shit that has happened as of lately (and
continues to happen, it seems) has contributed to the layer of squishy blanketing my usually
firm tummy.  anyway, make a pig out of yourself every once in a while, just stay away from 4 1/2
lb bags of hersheys while you do this.  and definately masturbate (i guess you c!
 ould try
 masterbating as well, but i don't know about that...tee hee!)  (haha, the next comment will
send the boys running and screaming in fear and terror!)  did you know, shelley, it cures cramps
as well?  that and my orgasms are like twice as powerful then, as well!



i came up with a great halloween costume: i'm gonna be brittany spears, "hit me baby...one more
time" costume!
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